It is always a difficult struggle dealing with a break-up. But it is even a harder problem trying to win your ex back! There is the longing, reminiscing of your happy times together and many what-ifs that will linger in your mind. What if you can only be given the second chance to be with her? What if you can let her see that you’ve changed for the better you. There are many more questions that you will ask yourself trying to win her back.
To help you arrived with the right answers here are some of the different ways to get your girlfriend back.
Meet up with her in person
Phone calls and text messages will in a way help you send her the message that you want her back in your life. But, will it do the job for your ultimate goal? Definitely no!
The best approach is to meet with her in person and get her to feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, forgive you and become open to being with you again.
Of course, that will entail a lot of hard work on your part and a change of behavior before she finally feels comfortable around you again and sees the changes in you that may erase the reasons why she breaks up with you in the first place.
Redefine the relationship and start again
Breakups do happen when the man and woman simply don’t know what and how they really want to feel in a relationship. The inexperience of a guy with relationships may be blamed for this; if she takes his woman for granted or if he just wasn’t ready to be the man that she really needs.
In cases like these, the guy should man up. He needs to show her his emotional strength and be ready to redefine the relationship and start again. He could tell his girlfriend that the relationship is worth investing a bit more time in because all relationships go through ups and downs. That for a lasting, happier and fulfilled relationship, it will take two to tango! But definitely, the guy should take the lead in all of these.
In addition, showing your self-confidence and emotional strength in your relationship will only make her respect you. She well as feel attracted to you, which is your ultimate goal of winning her heart back again.
Make her feel jealous
Sad. Love isn’t fair. Alone at home and feeling lonely and depressed. These are the kind of stuff that you avoid posting up on social media. The woman you want back in your life will definitely be further away from you while you struggle over your failed relationship.
Rather, if he sees you having a great time without her (whether you tell her in person, over the phone or she sees it on social media), she may think that she is losing a great guy who has the emotional strength to move on with life without her.
Start dating other women
It’s true! Date other women. This is one of the ways to get a girlfriend back after a break-up—dating other women who are as attractive as her or even more attractive than her.
The explanation is simple. When a woman breaks up with a guy, one reason is that she feels as though he’s not good enough for her. But, when she sees him with other women, she starts to realize that maybe she made a mistake and is now losing a great guy.
Display traits that will attract her
Showing her traits that made her fall out of love with you in the first place is a real boo! Women are naturally turned off by the emotional weakness of men (e.g. insecurity, nervousness, etc.). On the other hand. Men’s positive personality traits and behaviors are naturally attractive to women (e.g. self-respect, charisma, emotional strength, etc.)
Have these positive traits ready to be displayed. With your sincerity and honesty to win her love and respect again, will surely be within reach!
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